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23. Dezember 2015

My Ever After (idk), Recap, Advice


Hello, dear people who read this!
I am quite aware that I haven’t updated this site ever since I came back from England and I thought it would stay that way after I kind of forgot to do so during the summer holidays. What changed my mind was that I saw that I still got views on my blog even after it must have been long clear that there wouldn’t be anything new…
So I figured that this audience that was having a look at this now would be a completely different one to the one from last year and that those new people, who are probably the “new generation of exchange students”, might be people who would benefit from a recap, a bit of advice and how I see things half a year later.
So here we go:

What I have done since last summer
I started school again (duh)! I “skipped” the year that I missed so I continued together with my old friends. I basically did year 10 in England and now I entered the Qualification Phase (Q1). I take Biology and English at a higher level (Leistungskurs).
Which brings me to the next part:

Should I “re-do” the year that I missed?
This is a question that everybody has to answer from themselves. Generally, you can’t skip anything in the Q-Phase and opinions differ for the E-Phase (introduction phase, the year before the Q-Phase).
I didn’t feel like I needed to, because I took the subjects where the learning matter builds on to itself (i.e. Maths, Physics, Biology) in England. Whereas with for example Geography, you have got a topic here and a topic there and it doesn’t matter if you miss out on something in between, if that makes sense.
Additionally, I talked to my director of studies before I left and he said that I could try and “skip” if I thought that I could handle it and if I thought I couldn’t than I could go “back” any time during the year.

Did my English get better?
To be honest, during my exchange year I didn’t actually feel at all as if it would get better. I did notice a difference though, when I was back at home and attended an English lesson for the first time.
In fact, a girl that is now in my advanced English course asked whether the correct phrasing for what she wanted to say was either “the teacher has” or “the teacher have”. That was when I noticed a difference. I notice it when the guy who sits next to me in English class asks me to translate something for him and I can help him. I notice it when I sometimes can’t find a German word that I am looking for but have got the English equivalent in my head.
I am nowhere close to speaking a perfect English, I am still not perfectly happy with how I express myself sometimes or how I sound but I definitely did get better.

What do I miss?
Once I am at it: the language. There are so many things that the German language doesn’t seem to have the right words for.

The people. That isn’t a huge surprise, is it? I miss hanging out with my Hostfamily, playing with the kids and constantly hearing “hang me upside down like a monkey” right after dinner. I miss the other people that I had a lot to do with, but – more surprisingly – people that I didn’t do much with as well. Sometimes I would spot somebody and think “isn’t that…oh no, he/she is on the Isle of Wight, that is not going to be him/her”.

The Island. The beach. The view. The bus ride to school. School itself. The food. Habits. Inside jokes. A lot of things that I didn’t put down here.

And that strange kind of freedom.

My worst decision
I regret staying in my second host family for so long, even though I knew that I couldn’t stay there. I should have really done that earlier.

I should have also talked to more people. I was to concentrated onto the small group of people that I was with in the beginning that I kind of missed the time where it is acceptable to just walk up to anybody and talk to them before that kind of behaviour becomes somewhat weird.

My best decision
My best decision was definitely to move out of that second host family. It just wasn’t a good match. I wasn’t happy there, they weren’t happy with me being there. It just really was better for everyone involved.

I would like to add my second best decision as well and that would be talking the principal into letting me take Sociology. She tried to convince me to just simply drop my subject and not exchange it but I am really glad that I didn’t listen to her (the moral of this is not “don’t listen to authorities” though!) because the class was really fun, I “learned something for life” and it truly was something new. I would recommend each and every one of you to take at least one subject that you couldn’t take in your home country.

What is better – England or Germany?
I am going to be very diplomatic here and just state the motto that my organisation warmly recommended to us:
“It’s not better, it’s not worse, it’s just different!”

Are there any negative aspects as well?
A year abroad isn’t the right thing to do for everybody. It is normal to miss your people at home sometimes but if you miss them constantly then you will not do yourself a favour.

It is hard not to compare if you know how different it is elsewhere. This includes synchronisations of films being horrible, struggling to re-adjust to the school system or maybe just generally the different way of life.

I am also strangely aware of my English speaking abilities.

Would you do it again?
Obviously ;)

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